I’ve talked a lot about football lately, which is kind of crazy to me, because I only have a passing interest in it. I enjoy watching the long pass plays, but you know the thing about football? Pro football is owned by billionaires, played my millionaires, and fantasy played by thousandaires. I get them wanting to do it, because holy cow can you make a living for a few years by playing in the NFL.
But the amateur football players I don’t get. My son is in third grade, and from September until middle of October, he practiced two hours a day 3 times a week, and had to show up an hour early on Saturdays for practice before his games. We drove miles sometimes to watch a team that didn’t win once.
Also, I have two nephews, one on each side that played every year until this year, as seniors, they got to sit on the bench. Both spent years of their lives practicing, running plays, attending team meetings, dinners and sometimes didn’t get home until midnight, where they were supposed to do their “first priority” homework. And guess what they got for all their hard work? The chance to sit on the bench of mediocre teams as seniors.
On the positive side (for me) they both were on teams that were on teams that were up in air on this Wednesday night. They had to win in order to tie the teams in their divisions. So it all came to a coin flip to see who was in, and who had to play each other.
If you are smart(or read the title of the post), you probably figured out that the coin flip had landed right on the side of the coin and my nephews are playing each other this coming Tuesday. Nephew vs. Nephew. Mediocre teams vs. Mediocre team. Bench player vs. Bench player. My side of the family vs. My wife’s side of the family. Time to choose. You know which side I’m going for. You know what side my wife is going for. This isn’t just a parent that has two kids, one at Duke and one at North Carolina. This is a family that could be ripped apart by a game that none of us care about, except for two lovable bench warmers.
So who is going to win? The one on MY side, or that other side of the family?
And just to give you a little extra motivation, view the emotional video above of one from my side of the family, and the none video I made of the other side.
ARRRRRGGGGHHHHHH
Bitter Family Rivalry Ben
High school sports are so ridiculous most of the time. If I hadn’t been one of the few girls who wanted to play goalie on my high school soccer team, I can guarantee you I would have had enough time during the season to carve a Van Gough replica into the bench.
And that “first priority” homework during the season? Ha…ha ha…hahahahahahaha!
It’s great to get into the spirit of the game and enjoy the time and – as an athlete – stay active, but from the players’ perspective (maybe your nephews, sometimes), it can all get a little too intense. Most of these kids aren’t getting college athletic scholarships and aren’t going to go pro, yet they’re made to sacrifice every free moment for at least half the school year so the coaches can keep their jobs and the school can make money.
I’ll stop ranting now haha. I’m just glad I served my time in school sports and am done with it. Guess I’m the Bitter One today!
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Welcome to the land of bitter. I try to find a sore spot that everyone can relate to and it looks like I finally found yours! It is terrible how the coaches run these kids ragged and expect them to get good grades in order to compete. It is such a contradiction. I was in basketball and was so mad when all my TV time was taken from me with the two hours of practice.
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They just don’t appreciate the value of TV time! Haha
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Yeah, coaches are selfish like that.
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Your side, of course! Because they have the incentive of being videoed by you and showing up on your blog as a bitter bench winner instead of a bitter bench loser… Am I right?
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In the end, I win because one of them loses and that creates bitterness between families and the most bitter of feelings.
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Personally I’m routing for your nephew. I feel like his bench warming talents far exceed the others bench warming talents. With most people it’s a little gross to sit on their residual butt heat, but your nephew has got it just right.
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Yep. I believe one of my nephews will win and that is great. And one will lose and that will be horrible.
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Oh, this is priceless! I hope there won’t be a huge family break or the start of World War III or something. Good luck to you!
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Oh my gosh, of course there will be. But I’m into battles so it should be fun.
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Well, in that case: enjoy! xD
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It will be fun!
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Thank you for stopping my my humble little blog. I like your bitterness, but like wit and weaponry, I think it could use a bit of sharpening (you’d be one step ahead of me in both). You need to learn how to tinker on a car. Not repair, mind you – then everybody wants a slice of your time. Get one of those rolling auto crawlers and some magnetic strips for your e-Reader, the roll under the car and attach the reader to any large chuck of metal (or rust). Now the wife thinks you’re a wonderful hubby, and you can catch up on all your reading or binge-watching. Do NOT, under any circumstances, actually try to work on a car, though. I’ve done so for about 45 years (I’m 53 – yes, I started young), and most cars are VORACIOUS consumers of time, money, and if you really want to fix anything, skin and blood. My Cavalier has more of my blood in it than I do. Also, only work (if you must) on GM cars. If you get REALLY frustrated (and you will), a loud shout of “JUNKYARD” and “TOYOTA” will often repair your problems without need of tools, parts, OR a blood sacrifice. (Hey, it kept my 1973 Vega running until 1989!) What’s the best part of tinkering you ask? Simple – as the old phrase goes, “If it doesn’t work, hit it with a hammer. If it still doesn’t work, hit it with a bigger hammer. If it breaks, it needed to be replaced anyway.”
And remember, you don’t have to limit yourself to your own vehicle. Got an obnoxious neighbor? Offer to align his headlights. Use a 10-pound sledgehammer. Fixes EVERYTHING! 😀 (Note – this blogger does not recommend using tools to abuse your neighbor. I prefer longswords and bayonets, personally. 😉 )
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This is some great advice. I should offer to tinker on the car for hours, then decide that it was a problem that only mechanics can fix because of a computer problem. Great advice!
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Ya read my mind – ALWAYS blame it on the computer. Heck, for over 15 years, I made a career of blaming things on the computer! (I was a mainframe programmer.) But you do need to do one technical thing – find the fusebox. It’s not hard, usually next to your left knee or in the glovebox. Read the owner’s manual to find out what they do, then yank a non-essential one and tell the wife it’s gonna take HOURS to fix. Lay down on the floor of the car, snooze for a few, then plug the fuse back in and VOILA! You’re Mr. Goodwrench personified! (That same theory works on household wiring, as well. And don’t worry about possibly getting shocked – I’ve been hit with 110-volt current hundreds of times in my life, and there with nothing me wrong all is at. 😀 )
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I’m going to go and look at the owner’s manual for how to change a fusebox.
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I’ve always thought it is too bad we teach children competition instead of cooperation. *sigh* When they put me in charge of the world, I’ll change things. lol
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I hope they never put me in charge. It would be such a huge and bitter mess.
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Nothing’s more bitter than a family feud. You are really in your element now, Ben. It’s a win-win situation for bitterness.
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That is why I had to post about it. And why either way I lose. Which is how the bitter person looks at everything.
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Ben- I think this has the potential to be one of those bitter rivalries like the Yankees and the Red Sox, the Cowboys and everyone……try to stay alive…..
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Ben- this sounds like it could become one of those bitter rivalries in sports history. You know, like the Yankees & the Red Sox, the Cowboys & everyone…..best of luck. Hope you survive.
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It could be. Just watch the game become a way where only one scholarship is available to the nephew that wins the game. Then see the tears on the face of the one that lost to the other. How bitter….
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That is almost deliciously bitter, Ben. I guess you could feel sad for the loser….or not.
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Or bitter that one of them didn’t win. Either way, there is bitterness to be had.
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Bitter is the gift that keeps on giving. Like the jelly club in Christmas Vacation.
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Or Loot Crate. I almost cried when I had to cancel that last week.
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I am so sorry for you. LC was one of the only sites where I found Ultraman.
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I will be back on LC someday though. I just need to get a j.o.b. first.
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J.O.B.S are really overrated & not to mention annoying.
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Jobs are pretty much the worst. Why do we have to have them again?
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As I am told to pay for things.
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Things should just be free. Who made up these bills and paying for stuff thing?
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