I had my typically bitter Tuesday yesterday. Even though I am on “vacation”, I had to attend two graduations. And I’m not talking about college or high school. I’m not even talking B.I.T.T.E.R. school of Bitterness(you degraduate with dishonors there.) We are talking a graduation from Pre-school and a graduation from a fictional pioneer school that my daughter was indoctrinated in for the last two weeks. It wasn’t humiliating enough that she had to wear pioneer clothes for two weeks. They were also taught that if they spoke out in class they would be smacked on the back of their hands by a ruler and put in the corner with the dunce cap on. I am so offended by this. Why would they have to go back to the 1800’s to steal this idea? They could have just asked me to describe my school days. Or gone back to the VCR tape to see all the dunce caps I wore in high school. I still have bed head from all the dunce cap wearings and and oblong scar on my hand from the ruler beatings. I’m glad of the reminders of my need of revenge against all my former teachers, principles, and co-students. They don’t call me Revengerman for nothing.
The bitterness I have from Tuesday isn’t from those reminders but with all these graduations and the talking. I’ve mentioned on a couple of occasions that there is a study that suggests (and by suggests I mean, I say it’s true) that men talk about 7000 words a day and women are about 20,000 words. These are just the facts. Do I believe these findings? Not on your life. I think that is so wrong to suggest that women only speak 20,000 a day. A few speak less, but I guarantee you that I know for a fact(evidenced by my opinion) that most of them speak infinity words more than that. In fact, if you were to speak fast and 40 words per second, every second of every day, what would that equal? A Google?
I also know people(like me) that speak way less than 7000. I know of at least two people that I have worked with, one over a year and one 5 or 6 that have probably spoken like five words between them to me. That is still too much. I would suggest that if someone talks to me with a word, and looks at me with any type of reaction they are communicating with me too much. It is my hope that I be like Will Smith in that one movie I AM Legend, where he is with his dog and that is it. (I haven’t seen the movie, but I assume that he doesn’t meet anyone else in the entire movie and that he doesn’t talk to his dog? Am I right?)
What I am trying to say I want to be that Legend. And by that I mean don’t talk to me. With words or non verbal words. Oh and don’t graduate from something, because then I might have to attend it. And listen to words.
Arrghhhhh
Bitter No Talky to me Ben
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You tapped a vein of universal bitterness, here. Nobody really likes graduations. They remind us of our 3 year old, 17 year old, and 22 year old hopes and dreams. The ones that turned out to be unrealistic considering our talents. Pure bitterness, right? Tough.
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I just say show me the money. I don’t care about the stupid degree. Besides, who does exactly what they studied in college? My dad’s major was Asian studies and he had a career in computers. Go figure.
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Can I be the Unvaledictorian at the School of Bitterness? I have never declared a major, I have never gone to the campus, I have never attended a class, and if I am the unvaledictorian I will never become a member of the Alumni Association. I think I qualify.
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There is cutthroat competition for the Invaledictorian. You could however try our rival down the street, the Rainbow Happy School of Happiness.
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I am very bitter about your lack of confidence in me. Maybe I will apply at the other school. As as a matter of fact, I am. I can always rely on you for a little shot of rejection. Thanks BB.
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Always glad to make someone bitter and be at our rival school.
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I hate to post a wordy comment, but that was hilarious.
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Why do you have to use so many words?
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now see if you were blissfully absentminded like I am, you would never even hear about the pre-school graduations until they were already over. Then you could be bitter that you missed it.
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I gotta blame my wife for being so much in the know about everything. That would be fine if she didn’t tell me and force me to go to these things.
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I have nominated you for the Liebster Award. I did it because I really enjoy your posts and you have taken me a long way toward being bitter. You may already have it I didn’t check, but know I think you should. Go here for details: http://wp.me/p2Qoij-ui
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I have gotten the Liebster a lot. It’s alright though because I need something to be bitter about.
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Made up words are the bomb. Is that part of the Ben’s B.I.T.T.E.R School of Bitterness Curriculum? I hope so! I would like to enroll…
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You bitter believe made up words are part of the school! You definitely need some bitterness as you are partially happy sometimes. I figure we could make some space for one who needs a lot of help!
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I am bitter because I couldn’t get past the misspelling of “hassle”. . . . .grrrr
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I did that on purpose to cause you bitterness. I always find a way…
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You have succeeded!! lol
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Success! Bitterness!
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Ugg…pre-school graduations. Congratulations! You know have to spend the next 13 to 21 years learning crap you don’t want to! Yeah you!
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If you have to do the homework for the kid that is graduating you shouldn’t have a graduation.
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What the hell? They hit your kid? Did you beat them?! Beat them hard?
I think in I Am Legend he does meet people… but I might be mixing it up with another movie so as to make one huge movie that I disliked instead of two separate ones. But no he def talks to the dog… like Tom Hanks spoke to Wilson (which spoiler alert was a volleyball). That is still one of the biggest letdowns in movie history for me, I truly believe he should have risked his life to save that volleyball, he was bat shit crazy by that point, maybe it was because I loved Wilson so much more than Tom Hanks WILSONNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN).
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They talked about what it was like. They better not have hit the kid or I will burn the school down with all the teachers in it. I didn’t see I am Legend, so I just assume that it is how I imagined in my head. You totally ruined Castaway for me, I almost saw some of it between my naps.
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You haven’t seen Castaway? Well I did totally ruin it for you… but I didn’t tell you the end end end which is a total shock. Wilson stuff just happened in the middle.
I agree burning it is the only option you have at that time. Why would they even bring that up? Graduation is weird and super boring. People that tell me they are going to Pre-K graduations make me roll my eyes. I try not to but I think it’s stupid. I guess I have to have a kid to know that it isn’t.
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I have seen Castaway. It was an okay movie, but it was more of an achievement of Tom Hanks to not have anyone to talk to on the island other than Wilson, as opposed to an interesting movie…
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Yeah I disliked it. Wilson was my favorite. I did like Saving Private Ryan!
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Private Ryan was good yeah.
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You are wrong on I Am Legend, by the way. On both counts.
And you should put your bitterness aside for one day while you fake a happy face for preschool graduation and pioneer school “graduation,” which is slightly oxymoronic to me. Why would one “graduate” to the days of living with no air conditioning??! C’mon, man…
Oh wait… It sounds like I’m helping your bitter cause. Oops.
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I figured I was wrong on I am Legend. I just thought it was about me anyways, so I didn’t bother watching it. Graduation for anyone other than high school and college is pointless. They never did that crap back in my day. You actually had to have a GPA to graduate.
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Ha! I hear ya’! We never had anything other than high school and college graduations, either… But she IS your kid…
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And she wouldn’t have cared one bit if I wasn’t there. In fact, she knows I wouldn’t have been there had I not been off work this week. And she wouldn’t have cared if the stupid school wouldn’t have invented the stupid graduation in the first place.
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Lol!
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LOL means laying on leather right?
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At my son’s school, they have MONTHLY assemblies where the principle talks ENDLESSLY. I estimate that she probably uses about four million words a day.
I didn’t talk the entire time I read your blog…
Your bitterness has demotivated me to speak.
Well done!
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At least there were that many less words in the world. I to eliminate them by 2014.
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My oh my. You sound awfully chipper today with this post. More than usual. Did she really have to wear Pioneer clothes???
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For two weeks. Wait I sounded chipper? How could you say that about me?
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Yeah, a bit. I know deep down you’re bubbling forth some major happiness-it’s just bursting to come out and overflow and take over the world. Hehe. I have to go back and reread that amusement park blog again. Everytime I think about it, I start laughing!
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That’s it Java Girl. I am definitely not going to write a post about your birthday now. I’m going to go stew in the corner and be bitter for the rest of the day.
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Hehe! Aw come on!! I want my 2 hours of fame man!!
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Fame is over! Although I do have an idea for a post that may include you and some other famous bloggers. It’s no personal post just for you, but it is bitter than nothing.
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Haha! Fame is not over. It’s just beginning! I’m only kidding. Hey, did you see there is a movie called “The Bitter Buddha”?? I think I saw it in Redbox. Made me think maybe you are up to something, you know, doing some movie directing you haven’t told us. I’m calling you out on this one Ben!!
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How did you know I was going into movie directing? I have big ambitions with that most underappreciated of words. Movies, TV shows, blogs, etc. I am excited for you to be the first one to rent it!
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I hear ya. (Get it? Get it? Shut up?)
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So many words! You talk as much as a woman!
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Blah Tuesday graduations! (3 whole words from this gal)
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I am bitter about all those words. Tuesdays I hate, Graduations pointless, Blah fills in for all the words I don’t care to hear from anyone.
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Is leaving a comment talking to you??? Did I ever mention that all dog owner talk with their dogs? Live is full of questions today, you’ve confused me ?-?-?
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It’s not talking out loud right? I will allow it from you Tutti, since you do great creations. I am not a dog owner, so I don’t talk to them.
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I could lend you my dog for a little chat.
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Dogs make me bitter. They talk too much.
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A fish might be a nice pet for you
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Except I would occasionally would have to feed it.
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Food-free-fish! No problem. Feeding is no work, all you have to do is clean the aquarium permanently 😉
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I don’t want to clean either. Too much work.
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CHECK OUT MY POST! I just wrote about preschool graduations! (It was actually pretty bitter…)
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Well this post was actually about talking, but I guess I did talk about Bitter Graduations. Bitterness all around.
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Cool new page here. My niece’s graduation class was over 1,000. 1,000. Kill me now.
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Was that her preschool class? They sure are allowing a lot of kids in preschool these days. I hope you bring a laptop computer so you can blog while you are attending.
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Definitely a google. And graduations of any type usually include far too much droning.
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I am tired of the droning. Especially the droning from Oprah.
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Ugh. Btw, did manage a pic on your FB. You will love the pic, too. Very bitter!
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I’m sure I will bitter about it when I get to it.
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Ugh. Btw, did manage a pic on your FB. You will love the pic, too. Very bitter!
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Oprah makes me very bitter.
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I don’t think I’ve spoken 20,000 in my life, yet.
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I’m still working on 7000, but can’t think of anyone that is worth my words.
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Got my daughter’s Pre-K “graduation” tonight. Totally bitter about that. I spent 10 minutes watching her tug at the crotch of her tights for last ceremony just months ago. She doesn’t even understand Oh, The Places You’ll Go. She’d rather go to the ice cream place.
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Sounds like my kids shamuations. I can wait for the next one.
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Well, crap, we’re not supposed to communicate with you, but I’m female, so I have to at least type 1000 words to get the estrogen out of my system. I’m just giving you props for your dazzling glittery tassel image. I assume that after uploading it, you immediately drank a Sea Breeze and did jazz hands. However, I now have a yearning for you to stick it on the Hoff and make a David Tasselhoff.
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Bitters for your comment. I think you said something like blah blah blah and words something and bitter. Is that what I just caught?
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I was going to post a witty, rolling in the aisle, split your sides, funny comment – but since you don’t want anyone to talk to you, I won’t bother ! 😉
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Good and thanks for not bothering. People talking and commenting is like cat’s screaching to my ears.
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I’m bitter that I can’t give or see likes; just keeps loading and finishes. Are you having the same problem?
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Maybe that is why no one is liking or commenting. Or because people just like talking too much.
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An ah-ha moment
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I agree with you 100% about the value of fewer words. Those words we don’t utter are ALWAYS our most profound (by the way, lest you consider me less profound than I AM, notice that I never uttered those words OUTLOUD . . . comments on your post don’t count because, get real here BITTER-BEN, who besides me has time for such drivel anyway???)
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People come here? Why would they do that? And why would they comment?
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100% right again, Bitter Ben, which is why I am neither here, nor responding to your comment (I’m merely pointing my absence out to you lest you overlook it. It’s the least I can do. If I could do less, I would!)
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Thanks for doing the least amount possible. It shows people how not to do things around here.
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Oh, BB, you are so funny in your bitterness. My 6th grade teacher sat behind us and zinged sharp edged tissue boxes at out heads. A couple years later he gave a boy a concussion when he rammed his head into the blackboard, and was asked to leave.
As for all the graduation ceremonies, announce the discovery of a chronic back problem that is aggravated by lengthy sitting in uncomfortable seats. Then graciously show up for any reception afterwards, eat the food, then leave when your back begins to act up again.
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I am bitter at 6th grade teachers. I don’t need to announce my back problems. I will just leave right in the middle. Who cares who sees me leave. Graduation is bogus.
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May you have a bitter day
more bitterness to come your way
Bitterly you are my friend
hence bitterly I’m here til the end
over a bitter cup of coffee
or bitter words I speak
I’m sending a bitter hug
in case you’re bitterly weak.
A bitter smile attached
Belinda
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At least most of the words you used are bitter. Actually I don’t acknowledge the rest of those words. Not because I am bitter, but because I don’t know the others.
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🙂
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Bitter poem though. I appreciate the bitterness.
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I bitterly accept your bitter thanks…smiles
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As long as you are bitter about it.
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Oh, my, you’re living dangerously. So how many words was that, anyway?
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Oh boy, now I have to respond this with words. Arggh. I’m going to have to make up words just to avoid talking to others.
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